NOYB
When wanting to gossip about someone try talking to them about it first to see if it's okay to say what you are wanting to say! ;)
Now, you're probably wondering why I am putting this up... Well, it has recently come to my knowledge how much I'm being talked about behind my back. I'm sitting here wondering if I EVER gave permission to others to talk about me, but then I realize that NO because it's MY life I haven't. I truly am starting to see how bad gossiping is. I have been hurt by it so much over the past few weeks, and I'm not even sure if I'm the one gossipping, but I know I've been gossipped about. Sometimes... even good Gossip can be BAD!!!! See, a year ago I almost dated this guy... he's a really amazing friend of mine and everything, but I feel like it is mine or his place to tell people about how we almosted dated. NOT ANYONE ELSE. Well, someone has been going around talking about me & this guy saying that I still like him, and I thought to myself... isn't that my decision to make? So, last night when going to bed I decided that Gossipping about others is NEVER good... So, I'm going to try from here on out to not gossip about others... not do the "he said, she said" junk... it seriously hurts people & it's not fair! What goes on in another person's life is their business... NOT YOURS... unless they are married to you... lol. Or unless you are really worried about that person, but then you should probably take that to the Lord and have him help you help them... but don't be going to others talking about it. Too many people end up hurt that way, and honestly... I'm sick of being hurt! Anyway, there's my little thought... and hope you enjoyed it! :D
